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To feel deeply is not a burden,

but a gift. 

May this artwork be a reminder of that.

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  • This piece expresses physical intimacy between two men. My hope is that, by witnessing more moments of intimacy like this, we will become more curious about what intimacy means for ourselves and how we share that with others. Ideally, with loving intentions to spread more respect and bliss to ourselves and others.

  • This piece expresses physical intimacy between two men. My hope is that, by witnessing more moments of intimacy like this, we will become more curious about what intimacy means for ourselves and how we share that with others. Ideally, with loving intentions to spread more respect and bliss to ourselves and to others.

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Solo exhibition at Brokers Gallery
Downtown, San Diego (2025)

What collectors are saying…

  • I own multiple pieces by Thomas Graff and his work moves me every time I see it. I'm also impressed at how hardworking this artist is - making pieces that stand the test of time and express such delicate emotional qualities that everyone can related to. His work is a conversation starter.

    - Bonnie

  • I commissioned Thomas for a drawing depicting a super emotional and sensitive moment in my life. The piece turned out better than I expected and I'm honored to own his artwork that captured this moment so beautifully.

    - Matthew

  • I wear his apparel all the time. I'm grateful to see gay-themed work presented in such a classy way.

    - Gui

Sunset over the mountains with a body of water in the foreground
A man with a beard taking a selfie in a mirror while working on some wooden furniture pieces.

Art keeps me up and night and helps me rise in the morning. It’s a practice, much like meditation, that calms my mind and makes me feel connected to my soul.

Born in Illinois, I have a degree in Art and my work has been seen in publications like: Elle, People, WWD, Business Insider, New Beauty, Beach Modern Luxury and San Diego Magazine.

Email: thomas@visualcarbon.com for commissions or other requests. Looking to book me for a male intimacy photo/drawing session? CLICK HERE. Photos I take @in2mates on IG.

AINAH + T.GRAFF

AINAH + T.GRAFF

SHOP - "INTIMACY IN THE WILD" COLLECTION

In collaboration with Art Is Not A Hobby, this F/W 2025 apparel collection shares intimate moments and thoughts aimed to remind men and women to question their personal intimacy and how they show up for themselves and for others, daily.

Frequently asked questions

  • Because each order is printed on demand, typically you will received in 7-10 business days, though it may take up to 2-weeks (14 days) to receive your order. Purchasing original artwork will be discussed individually do to various shipping options and costs related to that.

  • All sales are final and no exchanges or refunds are allowed. However, in an unforeseen instance such as the print arriving damaged or not arriving at all, please email thomas@visualcarbon.com and refunds may be granted for certain circumstances deemed fit by the artist.

  • Prints art available at 8×10in, 11×14in, 16×20in, 18×24in, 24×26in. Original artwork varies.